Nkombo Island Children's Feeding Programme |
Today they brought all the children together;
normally they divide them into groups of around 60, as Josephine, the wife
of the Archbishop of Rwanda, The Most Rev.Onesphore Rwaje, had come to visit. All the children were ready and seated at 9am and we arrived
at 12 noon having driven from Kamembe and then taken a boat across Lake Kivu to
the island. A bit of challenge for
Josephine and Esther, wife of Bishop Nathan, to get in and out of the wooden
boats - there were moments when I thought one of them might topple into the
water.
Don't rock the boat as the wives of the Archbishop & Bishop might go overboard! |
The children were given a hearty lunch of meat,
rice, vegetables and a bottle of orange squash. They sat patiently through
songs and speeches before getting fed – all very organised, with no grabbing
hands and the children made sure that others around them also got their plate
of food as easy to miss one or two. Altogether there must have been around 500
children adults gathered today on what was a very hot day but a wonderful thing
to be part of.
Dishing out the start of over 300 lunches |
The Archbishop is here for a few days to officially
open some new churches. There was a delightful moment this morning when we were
sitting in the living room of his room, waiting for his wife to arrive on the
flight from Kigali. Hearing the
plane land, the airport is a short distance from the guest house, he said “I
better go and make my bed before my wife comes” and wouldn’t accept the offer
of a member of staff making his bed for him.
So, I came back from Kigali still without visa and
passport. Yes, the saga continues
after what I think is six visits to Immigration in Kigali, six visits to
Immigration in Kamembe and countless letters, documents, copies of this and
copies of that. Don’t really
understand what’s going on but am sure learning a lot about patience and
perseverance – much more than I thought I had. Now I have to wait for a phone call in the next few days –
not sure what they are going to say, yes I have it, no I don’t, come to Kigali
for an interview or a request for further documents. If I do get it on Monday or Tuesday, it would be a great
Christmas present.
Arriving into Kigali last Tuesday huge black storm
clouds had gathered over the city and the surrounding hills – was this an omen,
I thought? Arriving at the bus station the heavens opened and a deluge of
water came down and through the coach park, trapping me and other people in the
coach office where we were stuck for an hour watching the waters getting
higher. A taxi had come to meet me but was unable to get to me because of the
level of the waters but eventually he managed to reverse the car and, I was
able to clamber in hoping that I wasn’t going to topple in the water with
everyone watching the muzungu make a complete ass of himself.
The start of the rains & flooding |
Leaving the coach park, we realised we were not going to get anywhere fast as
the rains had brought the city to a standstill. I had decided, this time,
to stay with Rwandan friends, Charles and Juliette and a normal journey time of
20 minutes took me 3 hours! I’ve since seen in the national press that 6
people were washed away and drowned, because of the amount of rain that came
down - 5 of these where children, 60 houses where destroyed and also many
plantations were damaged with crops lost.
Staying with Charles and Juliette, in what they call their “elastic” house, was very enjoyable – I still get confused with the number of family/friends who live there as every time we sit down for a meal I’m sure there’s an extra person I haven’t met before – in addition to their own children, they also have adopted children living there and at one stage Charles said there were 21 people in the house. At the last count, I made it 12 but this number seems to be going up and down as they see to have an open house policy where neighbours and children also come in – it’s a great example of Rwandese hospitality and they always seem to produce enough food for everyone.
Staying with Charles and Juliette, in what they call their “elastic” house, was very enjoyable – I still get confused with the number of family/friends who live there as every time we sit down for a meal I’m sure there’s an extra person I haven’t met before – in addition to their own children, they also have adopted children living there and at one stage Charles said there were 21 people in the house. At the last count, I made it 12 but this number seems to be going up and down as they see to have an open house policy where neighbours and children also come in – it’s a great example of Rwandese hospitality and they always seem to produce enough food for everyone.
I enjoy taking myself off and just walking along
the streets observing all the street traders and looking at the shops and what
they are selling. I was tempted to
buy myself a new suit but, unfortunately, they did not have it in my size. The models reminded me a bit of Posh
and Becks!
Suits you sir! |
Getting back to Kamembe, on Friday, was a bit of a challenge
as all the buses were fully booked because of the start of the Christmas
holidays and people returning home.
Charles managed to find me a seat with one of the bus companies so
another 6 hour, bottom numbing, stomach churning drive back. Thankfully, nobody was sick although
quite a few were feeling queasy as we came through the forest. Not the most
relaxing of journey’s with the radio on full blast (on the way to Kigali we had
Celine Dion, Abba, Dolly Parton and a few Rwandese songs that had some of the
passengers singing and clapping – sadly, I did sing along to Abba!), people
talking and shouting endlessly on their mobile phones - no signal as you go
through the forest so an hour and half respite!
Today is the 22nd December and any signs
of Christmas here are still non-existent. It does feel a bit bizarre as I sit here
looking out over the garden, with flowers blooming and the sun beginning to go
down after another warm day. This afternoon
I was invited to attend a confirmation celebration and was sitting under a
marquee thinking back in the UK it will shortly be getting dark, fires will be
lit, Christmas tree lights will be on.
Am I missing it? If I was
honest, a little bit.
The celebration followed a three-hour church service this
morning complete with confirmations, communion and an hour’s sermon from the
Archbishop – a lovely, humble man who preached not from the front but wandered
around the church addressing members of the congregation. Not sure if this was
to keep them awake as it was getting very hot under the tin roof! The service was followed by a lunch for
the Archbishop and his wife and then it was off to the confirmation celebration
that included yet another lunch.
It’s interesting to observe the customs here. The
celebration had us all seated in rows of chairs, introductory speeches, food,
the customary bottle of Fanta, more speeches, not a lot of talking amongst guests and then we leave. A different kind of social event to
what we do in the UK – standing around, talking, drinking, more drinking.
New Year is the more important event here when they
celebrate in a much bigger way so it is going to be interesting to experience
my first ever Christmas away from home and in a place so far away from the UK. I
will try and get into the spirit of Christmas by listening to some carols,
putting up some tinsel (thanks Charlotte for sending this to me!), lighting
some candles and maybe picking some fresh flowers from the garden as long as
Modeste, the guard, doesn’t see me as he looks after it so well.
So, this is my final blog post for 2013 after what
is nearly 8 months spent here in Rwanda.
Wishing you all a very Happy Christmas and a
peaceful 2014.
P.S. I mentioned in my last post a young women with a sick baby. She was referred to a hospital in Kigali where they they have said the baby has/had meningitis. They have prescribed some medicine and she will have to go back in a month for a follow-up appointment.